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‘People have often asked me how I survived my childhood reasonably sane. They think it was because my father and Hora loved me deeply and that I never doubted it. But as much as, perhaps more than that, it was the fact that I came to see the world in the light that my father’s goodness cast upon it.’ Raimond Gaita
In 1998, Raimond Gaita’s Romulus, My Father was first published—the story of his father who came to Australia from Europe with his young wife Christine and their four-year-old son after the end of the Second World War. In the isolated landscape of country Victoria, Christine succumbed to mental illness, and a series of tragedies befell the family.
Described as ‘a profound meditation on love and death, madness and truth, judgment and compassion’, Romulus, My Father became an instant classic.
Now, thirteen years later, and four years after the release of the film, Raimond Gaita has put together this collection in which he reflects on the writing of the book, the making of the film, his relationship to the desolate beauty of the central Victorian landscape, the philosophies that underpinned his father’s relationship to the world and, most movingly, the presence and absence of his mother and his unassuaged longing for her.
‘Gaita is a brave, decent and emotionally intelligent man…we need more like him.’
‘Somehow, what was true of Romulus, of the light his goodness cast upon the
world a light that made it possible for his son Raimond to survive childhood
without bitterness, to love without shame or condescension his sick mother who
had abandoned him this light binds together and gleams out of the book as
well. There are moments you can find them, captured in passing, in *After
Romulus* when the light settles for a second and you can see it at work.’
‘In After Romulus Raimond Gaita invites us into the far reaches of his considerable
mind and the deep places of his soul. This will be felt as a privilege by most
readers, as it should. And it is, as it turns out, not just a sequel, but an extension of
all that was good in his initial story. It is a book to stretch the mind and enlarge
‘It is impossible not to be moved by this achingly raw remembrance and grateful
for the stunning candour of its author.’
‘This extraordinary book set me reflecting upon my own residency in the world– my own decency, condescension, loves and truths.’
‘This is the kind of writing that is so brave it makes you flinch, so profound it makes you examine yourself, and so moving it makes you see life afresh. I was entranced as usual by Rai Gaita’s limpid style, and his signature combination of philosophical intellect and warm heart.’
‘[The essay]“An Unassuageable Longing” explains Christine and makes her real: she is finally chronicled with love and rigour, as was Romulus…In a book full of extraordinary revelations, this chapter will stay long in the reader’s memory.’
‘Raimond Gaita’s After Romulus is an eloquent meditation on love, friendship, philosophy and loss. Gaita’s tragic loss of his mother at an early age reminds us of Emily Dickinson’s ‘The craving is upon the child like a claw it cannot remove’. The reader is compelled to admiration by this brave book.’
‘There are times when the reader is right there beside Gaita, delighting in the stinging descriptions of his childhood at Frogmore and sympathising with the heartache that confronted him so early in life.’